bells

wedding bells that is ...
they seem to be (furiously) ringing...
but not for me...zannen desu ne.

i am happy for those who have found love
and who are making their commitment official
in the eyes of both men and God.

i am happy for those who have cast their fate
to the winds, believing that long engagements
is not the sure fire way to make marriages last.

what does not sit well with me
is having to answer that nagging question again.

as a speaker once directed to me...
"your 3* y.o and you don't have a problem with that?"

ouch!